In the spring of 2007 I received an email from Victor Ros from Tarragona, Spain asking if I would come to Spain and do some horse clinics to help spread the word of Natural horsemanship. He and his wife Helka had bought a beautiful piece of property near Santa Perpetua and had started a horse center that they call Equilibre www.equilibregaia.com

This story really starts about 15 years ago when a very accomplished horse person and author, Lucy Rees, called me in Arizona to come look at a horse. She had ridden this horse on a desert journey and now wanted to sell her and wanted to know that she went to a good home. Any time that I look at a horse, to give my opinion on, I always take the horse through my 7 step program which takes from about 15 minutes to an hour. I did this with Lucy’s horse and then did not hear from her for 15 years…

I just returned yesterday, June 10th, 2008 from my second trip to Spain were I have been given the opportunity to play with over 50 different horses. I say play with them and not work with them because what I do is so enjoyable that it does not seem fair to call it work.I thank God that He has allowed me to spend so much time with horses.

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There will be more pictures daily.

Steve Harris

We had no way of transporting her to our farm arranged and given we were only 6 kms. away, I decided to walk her home. She was extremely de-hydrated and had clearly not eaten for days. She got watered-up and we were on our way. She was exteremly well behaved on the halter and rope and gave no problems whatsoever during our little journey.

Once at our farm and her new home, we commenced to explore different ways of bringing her back to health, together with friends and vets. nena was in worst shape than i had observed at first glance and we noticed that she had severe allergies as well as a punctured retina. We started treating her for her different ailments, and after just a few days of good food, water, different treatments and good handling she was on her way to happiness.

As she got stonger she demonstrated or explained to us what she liked and disliked as well as her tendencies. She was a real horse houdini! She could just twist through the electrical fencing to freedom almost at will, causing a great deal of havoc at our farm as other horses weer keen to join her in her galavanting.

Furthermore she was almost impossible to catch, you could not get anywhere near her when she had decidedly escaped. It took all sorts of patience, some i didnt know existed, to convince her that once caught she would not be severly punished. She was very frightened of the halter and ropes. I deduced that this was due to very rough handling, and once caught and man-handled, I again deduce that she was punished.

As time passed and she settled in her place at the farm, the escaping became more scarce and she slowly started gaining trust with humans.

A couple of years have now passed and I must say that her recovery is almost complete. What a beautiful little mare she has turned out to be. She is a delight with kids and now lives with her gelding pony friend Flequi.

In April 2007 we decided to look for a stallion to mount her, and finally found what we were looking for through a friend. He had a stallion pony who was heavily stressed from the vigours of continous mating. The Stallion “Estradivarious” was brought to our farm as a vacation from his mating routines. We were informed by the owner that the stallion was very vicious with mares leaving them heavily scarred after mounting. As we wanted a natural mating, we introduced them to each other and nena immediately went in heat and we let both ponies loose in a 50 foot (17 meter) roundpen. Mounting took place in a span of 7 days, after which both stallion and mare lost interest and became as calm as lambs.

The pregnancy lasted just under 12 months, and we now have a new member in our community. Murphy was born on the 3rd April 2008, a black foal with irregulr stars.

Bonding and imprinting was succesfully done by the mother, and the foal found his mom immediately and started suckling. After less than an hour he expelled Miconium and started testing his balance. A new life at our farm, full of energy and ready to face the world.

On the second day of his birth, we must say that he is extremely energetic and in good health,and nena is a super mare with her foal, she does not let him out of her side, following him everywhere while he investigates, trotting, galloping, smelling and tasting.

Murphy, What a character. So young and full of life, he has an ncredible personality or as Pat Parelli says Horsenality.

The foal is giving his mom a handful, running around in the paddock, full blast! nena just slowly follows him at a distance wherever he goes. he is starting to stand against his mom as well as biting her tail once in a while.

The other day we went for a short walk with Nena whilst Murphy followed us around. He presented himself to the dogs, racing up and down from mommy to about 30 meters and back again. Showing off his lifted Trot and how much of a stallion he his going to be.

I think I am going to take them for another walk…..

Víctor Ros

He’s got the ability to make us concentrate on “him”. We release all thoughts towards him. He hypnotizes us, our mind relaxes, it gets empty and calmer. All horses can bring us to that state of well-being, although they may be problematic or bad horses (opinion of those who cannot have a good communication with them).

All of them have this ability, but there’s always one who makes us feel better, in harmony, the one we have a special connection with. We must let them express themselves and listen to what they want to say to us.
Some will say almost nothing because they lost their confidence in humans or because they have learnt to behave as robots, some others will talk very clearly, and some others will be more subtle but they too will end up talking. They always open a door to let us communicate with them… the rest is our decision.

There are a lot of people who don’t accept that this communication exists, that we can connect two souls. They treat us as weird people (to say it nicely) but it is in those moments that we can send powerful positive vibrations. We visualize clearly what we want to achieve, all of a sudden, ideas come to mind on which techniques to use and when is the moment to use them. We have just opened a channel to our inspiration.

We want the maximum he can offer, but we don’t want him to forget what he is, a horse. We don’t force; we negotiate and come to agreements. We don’t judge if he’s good or bad; he simply is.

We respect his character, the spark that makes him happy, his soul, and we learn how to play with it. We try to explain to him what we want, taking advantage of how he is. He brings his heart to us, not as a servant but a companion. It is he who comes to us, who has the curiosity and has fun learning… from us.

He wants to feel free and have somebody to trust, somebody to cooperate with, to take decisions with. He is sensible and also looks for our sensibility, our understanding and comprehension. He doesn’t need us neither to overwhelm, disturb nor provoke him with pain. He doesn’t need to be a slave, he only wants to feel respect and live in peace. And he gives us everything when he’s really connected with us. Thus, he is happy, he is healthy.
On the other hand he runs away when he feels obligation, control, pressure or confusion. That makes his body react with discomfort: limp, colic, allergies… etc.

Sometimes it seems that he’s blocked, as if he wasn’t ready, fearing what we’re asking of him… Isn’t he reflecting how we are feeling? What do we feel, what do we transmit to him? What if it’s us who don’t believe that was the ideal moment to ask? What if it’s us who don’t believe that we can communicate with him as we could? What if it’s us who are blocked because we don’t know how to go on? Do we doubt about doing it properly, not spoiling it?
If we don’t trust ourselves as good leaders, he feels it and he doesn’t respond until he feels our mind`s clear, that we have set a direction and we follow through our decision.

Until we find this direction it may be convenient to make a pause. We let him relax, without any sense of pressure, and let him assimilate what he learnt and fix it in his subconscious mind.
We work on us. We clear our mind, make sure we believe that we can do what we want, and come back to him again with our calm heart and mind.
He receives those feelings and, always ready to cooperate with us, we get the harmony that we are looking for.

We achieve being the love of the eyes of our giant cuddly toy, to live and trust with.
No trauma for any of us and a real adventure of communication and love.

Olga Valls

Every morning Phoebus Apollo hitches his horses, sons of the wind, to the chariot of the sun, and hurtles upwards across the sky, dropping back to earth at night. Horses have to eat, after all. You can’t see this performance, for the sun’s brilliance blinds you, but how else do you think it rises every day? If you believe your eyes you come to the less fantastic conclusion that the sun simply orbits the earth, though you rapidly run into facts that restore the fantasy element. Planetary paths look like those of whirling dervishes, and the phases of the moon are, well, moonshine. You end up having to invent gods who behave like spoilt brats, or one God whose mind is unfathomable. Only years of observation enable you to predict more or less where planets will end up, for theory alone doesn’t.
An egocentric, or geocentric, vision is a distorted one. It was Copernicus who, by putting the sun in the centre, simplified the mystery and the mathematics; Galileo who nearly became astronomy’s first martyr, but saved his life by lying; Newton who with his laws of gravity and motion made sense of the orbits. A lot of others contributed, too, to produce the picture, so elegantly simple that its truth now seems intuitively obvious, presented in any child’s atlas. Revolutions don’t happen overnight, nor, usually, are they the products of single flashes of genius, but rather a dawning illumination punctuated by periods of chasing will-o-the-wisps. This revolution in psychological as well as scientific thought has its humbler parallel in contemporary horsemanship. Traditionally our view of the horse has been typically egocentric: God gave man dominion over the animals, horses are there to serve us, teach them who’s master. Unfortunately God forgot to tell them and they’re hard to convince: they skitter around like whirling dervishes and are apt to moonshine, though years of experience enables you to predict some of their lunacy.
Evolutionary ethology gives us a picture of Copernican clarity. Horse behaviour does not revolve around us, but around survival and breeding in the wild, where they avoid being caught and live together as harmoniously as possible. They like to repeat pleasant experiences and avoid unpleasant ones, and since they are quick learners we can train them. The closer we keep to their evolutionary expectations the easier this is: animals that constantly want to be somewhere else don’t learn easily.
Hence round pen training, in which we leave the horse loose, use his natural comprehension of body language, and allow him to lose his apprehension in his own time until curiosity takes over, is, or can be, very much faster and easier than other forms, with a few provisos. (One is that we remember that a good deal of training is about strengthening, supplying and balancing, which always takes time.) Fortunately there isn’t an equestrian Inquisition, or like Giordano Bruno, I should have been burnt: here in Spain, with its history of savage authoritarianism not so long ended, round pen training looks like witchcraft and druggery. But even in countries with a decent history of democracy the weight of human interests bears heavy. We like to be in control, and to have material means of ensuring it. And relinquishing egocentric attitudes doesn’t come easily.
This is reflected in two ways, the first practical. “Natural” training methods can produce results so spectacular as to be an exhibitionist’s delight. It is not difficult to render the horse completely passive and, in order to impress, work him to the point where he is no longer actively cooperating and learning but passively allowing himself to be pushed about. This satisfies some, but increasingly those with a critical eye see a dullness, a lack of interest, in horses whose imprint, Parelli or round pen training has been overdone. In any kind of training, one of the most difficult sensibilities to acquire is that of knowing when to stop.
The second way is deeper, conceptual. In the astronomical revolution, an interesting reluctance to accept that we are not the centre of the universe was shown by Tycho Brahe, who, while accepting that Copernicus was right about the other planets orbiting the sun, still made the sun circle the earth. This gave him and his pupil Kepler, appalling headaches. Conceptually our revolution, too, suffers from a kind of Tycho Brahe-ism, an unwillingness to accept fully that not all animals share our point of view. It concerns dominance.
When competing over limited resources, one animal in a group tends to gain control, or dominance, more readily than others. In some animals, notably social carnivores and primates, this makes the dominant attractive to subordinates, who approach with cringing gestures and allow their behaviour to be controlled by him. The disobedient go hungry. In others, like horses, whose natural environment does not present competition for food, the reaction to the dominant is avoidance.
In times of doubt or external threat, it is not towards the dominant that they turn, but towards a leader whose judgement they trust. They copy the leader’s actions and attitudes voluntarily.
Although it has been shown that in horses a) under natural conditions dominance hierarchies are so poorly developed as to be invisible, needing artificially created competition to develop, and b) in partially managed groups, the leader and the dominant are not necessarily the same animal, there is a reluctance on the parts of both trainers and some scientists to aabandon human attitudes about dominance. We live in a highly competitive society, where power hierarchies, status struggles and so on are heavily emphasized. A truly cooperative, non-hierarchical, non-authoritarian social structure is inconceivable to many, although we see it on a smaller scale every day.
Thus many round pen trainers believe that the technique is a psychological way of demonstrating dominance over the horse, who is driven away every time he does not comply with what is wanted, but then comes to us for leadership and submits to our control. In the light of the above this is muddled thinking, which results, as my friend Amy Coffman (a thoughtful and experienced watcher of
American ‘natural’ trainers) has pointed out, in a punitive way of using the round pen: the horse is made to gallop about until he submits. I, too, have seen this aggressive attitude in some pupils who have learned from others. The only round pen trainer I know of who differentiates between the roles played by dominant and leader is Mark Rashid, who probably (I am guessing) has not read the scientific literature but is an acute and dispassionate observer. It is a curious state of affairs when those who know that dominant attitudes repel horses fail to grasp its true significance: that horses do not obey dominants. They avoid them.
The only direct order one horse gives another is “get out of my space”, which does not help us much. There is no reason to suppose that they understand orders, or obedience, though they do understand pain and discomfort. If, in accordance with equine ethology, we reject the dominance /obedience model, what is the basis for the horse’s apparent obedience? What makes them so compliant?
One possibility is that they simply learn, as is assumed in most forms of training. Both practice and theory show that using calm and positive reinforcement makes this process more successful, but these alone do not explain the rapidity of round pen training compared to other forms. Can abandoning the dominance/obedience model open our eyes to other factors, which govern our relationship with the horse? I believe it can, and would like to present some, which have become apparent to me, in the hope that this will stimulate discussion.
First, I will assume that you are familiar with the ideas that natural horse/human communication is based on body language, and that a horse seeks confident, trustworthy company when he feels insecure. He then follows this leader, horse or human. But there is more to this than simply following.
When a group of horses is attacked, they bunch together and move as one. It is a popular prey move, which confuses the predator’s eye, blurring the outline of the single, vulnerable individual and presenting instead one huge unit, the coordinated herd/flock/shoal/gaggle / or what have you. In the flurried panic of group flight there is no possibility that each member is watching the leader; rather, each subsumes his individuality to the whole, the unitary herd. And this coordination is so fundamental to survival that, like other survival behaviours, horses practise it in play. One of colts’ favourite games is coordinating, in pairs or small groups, practising their intuition of the next move until they behave like well-attuned dancers or synchronised swimmers. They do it with us too, both on an emotional level (calmness, nervousness, playfulness, and so on), and physically. I have seen a colt and a dancer lie down simultaneously, roll, and extend their limbs one by one in perfect harmony, for twenty minutes, and no one, not even the dancer, could tell who was directing the show. They just did it together.
Their love of coordination is, I believe, the greatest basis for our ability to manage and ride horses. On one you know well there can be a feeling of almost mystical unity in which the horse seems to divine your thoughts long before you have given any aids. In fact, if you have prepared a youngster well, he does so even on the first occasion of being ridden, moving with extreme sensitivity to indications of which way you are both going next transmitted through your body alone. The ‘aids’ then recover their true meaning: they help clarify the matter when your body moves are not specific enough for the movement you would like the horse to make, or when the horse has momentarily lost the desire, normally so vital to him, to go along comfortably with you in coordinated harmony.
Comfort is an important point here. Horses like to be comfortable. The aids are minor irritations that the horse moves to avoid. Some youngsters try to get rid of them in other ways at first, as if they were flies, biting or kicking at your feet, or shaking their heads. However if you keep nagging, without increasing the strength of your signal, and stop immediately only when the desired move is given, the horse rapidly realises which way comfort lies; next time he moves away sooner, before the aid reaches the point of irritating.
Effective aids are not only well-timed and well-placed but vibratory. Steady pressures that gradually increase merely provoke the horse to respond with like tension.
Lack of tension is crucial to the response of moving away from pressure, for a tense muscle does not yield to pressure: it tenses further. This is not a peculiar characteristic of horses (sorry, Monty), but the result of spinal reflexes that we and other animals also have. The tense horse stiffens against pressure, or even moves into it. When relaxed, he moves away. He does not, as is often thought, have to learn to move away from pressure, as long as you know how, when and where to apply it.
The young horse normally appears to do so simply because he loses his tension as the situation loses its unfamiliarity. If he is truly free of tension he responds to the aids perfectly the first time you ride him. Since he is such a great coordinator, any tension on your part will induce tension in his.
A further universal concept, it seems to me, is that of blocking. Horses understand the idea of being blocked, either by objects, geographical features, or other animals. Foals block their mothers’ paths when they want to feed; a jealous mare blocks another from reaching the stallion; horses block us from reaching the manger with the bucket. Blocking moves are used in play, as we use them in the round pen to turn a horse. The block says ‘not that way’. We know that horses naturally hate the feeling of being restrained, caught in ropes, or held tight. In our anxieties about control we give ourselves problems by doing just that. Understanding the block sheds a different light on what a lead rope does: it reminds the horse not to go away or eat grass when other interests overcome that of coordinating with you. For the rest of the time you do not need it. Similarly the reins are not a means of control by constant pressure, but rather a channel of communication through which you coordinate your hand with the horse’s head, occasionally blocking his movement by stopping your hand.
A wilful horse is better retrained by blocking his unwanted moves, waiting until he has accepted the block, then asking him politely to go in your direction, than by trying to wrench him round when he is bent on another. Coordination, comfort, the understanding of blocks and body language: these seem to me the factors influencing most of our interactions with the horse, a kind of first stab at Newtonian laws of horsemanship. They are set in motion by the horse’s love not only of movement itself but of solving problems successfully, which to him means emerging comfortable and safe. Like us, he delights in testing his knowledge in guided experimentation rather than in drill and forced rote learning. To these principles we must add a proper understanding of how muscles, bodies and balance function if we are to work well together.
Although this analysis is at present tentative, I have been greatly encouraged both by its simplicity (natural laws tend to be few and simple: it’s their interactions that give rise to complexity and variability) and by the rapidity and comprehension with which people learn when taught through these principles.
True natural horsemanship, then, is not a scheme of teaching, however well constructed, but rather a dedication to the analysis of natural horse behaviour and its application in horse/human interactions. It is difficult, against the weight of tradition and the hierarchical nature of our society, to discard a fundamentally human point of view, just as it is difficult to feel the earth spinning and orbiting. The sun rises, doesn’t it? But the subtler analysis remains truer to the facts. We do not have to discard the hard-won knowledge of the past, the understanding of movement and balance, the progression of certain exercises towards certain ends, the manner in which to teach successfully. These are still as valid as the ancients’ observations of planetary movements. But the theoretical framework in which they were embedded has always given trouble to those of us who lack that magical intuition possessed by a gifted few, or years of dedicated experience, for the simple reason that it is flawed. I may not have it quite right, but it is surely time that we thought about it!